Vetting a Wedding


Your vows will resonate throughout your married life. Find vows from this selection that will fit.


Religious or literary, readings can be offered by a celebrant or friend.

Wedding Checklist

This checklist will help you keep track of many elements of your ceremony.

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in a Suitcase

Relationship Notes from an Analog Time for Our Digital World

A well-worn suitcase storing hundreds of love letters is unpacked to reveal nuggets of wisdom fro, a couple having an analog relationship that will help readers navigate today's digital world.


In this book you'll find time-tested tips on:


  • Making personal communications meaningful

  • Starting conversations and continuing the dialogue

  • Navigating up and downs of long-term relationships ​

Most of all, you'll find "Love in a Suitcase."

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Read this interview here with Rev. Tom about the book. 


“Thomas is the sweetest, creative, peaceful and kindest Officiant. He did an amazing job on our vows.”